What your mother really doesn't want

Mothers really don't want diamonds on Mother's Day! I learned this tidbit and a few other words of wisdom from the ladies in the locker room today. I discovered that Moms wanted to feel loved, remembered, but not overwhelmed with trinkets and activities. Here's a brief rundown of their feedback...

--Make sure only one sibling sends flowers. More than one bouquet and Mom begins to feel like she is hosting a funeral at her house.

-- Late arrivals, overcrowded restaurants, dietary concerns, misbehaving grandchildren, and sibling rivalry can make a Dinner Out a tough event to attend.

-- Leave Bow-wow the dog at home when you go to visit dear old Mom. If she wanted to care for a dog, she'd have one already.

-- Dinner at Mom's house. Great idea Make sure to bring it already prepared, clean and put away the dishes after you, and take home the leftovers! If Mom has to work her own event; its not a treat!

- Manicures are lovely, but she'd rather have a gas card and a cup of coffee. Yes - even mothers are feeling the purse pinch at the moment and are looking for help with basics.

-- Diamonds are a girl's best friend; a phone call or quick visit is Mom's. She's got all the jewelry she needs; what she doesn't have is enough time with her kids and grandchildren

-- Clothing. Most moms felt they were too hard to fit and really didn't need add another cardigan to the closet. But a nice Chanel lipstick ... well, that was another story!

What's a girl to do? Call or visit Mom on Mother's Day. A few minutes of your time and a hug may just be the best present.